Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Was Okonkwo afraid he will turn out like his father?



My answer is yes; even I could say that this story, "Things Fall Apart", took place because of the fear of Okonkwo to turn out like his father Unoka. Much of Okonkwo's life was dictated for the feeling of fear. Okonkwo was so worried that he will become like his father: lazy, unable to support his family, and a coward. Okonkwo considered his father to be feminine. Much of Okonkwo’s behavior results from a reactionary desire to be completely unlike his father. Because Okonkwo grew seeing his father incapable to take care of his family, being weak, and being feminine, Okonkwo worked hard to provide for his family materially, to be brave, and to be masculine. His desire brought him to be successful in many ways: he became very wealthy, he got a high-ranked position in the Umuofia clan, he got three wives, and was known for his skill as a great wrestler and warrior. But he got in trouble many times because of his desire of being better and better each day. His fear not just motived him to be a better person but also motivated him to take actions which were often unnecessary and ultimately destructive. One example to those unnecessary and ultimately destructive actions was when he assisted in the murder of Ikemefuna. Hi did not have to assist to that event, but he did it just to show his clan that he was not weak like his father. This passage makes me think in the story "Shooting an Elephant" where George Orwell ended killing the elephant not just because it was the right thing to do, he did it just to show the crowed behind him that he was not a loser. Anyway, backing up to "Things Fall Apart" Okonkwo ruled for the fear of being feminine like his father tended to beat his wives, be emotionally distant from his children, and to disown his oldest son.

As the elders said, “If a child washed his hands he could eat with kings”. (p. 8)

Unoka was just a loafer in the villages and Okonkwo was afraid to be like him, so he tried hard to be different from his father. Hi gained respect through the villages at the age of eighteen by throwing Amalinze the cat. In the nine villages age was respected among his people, but achievement was revered.
I think Chinua Achebe uses these two characters to show us the many aspects of Ibo culture through different perspectives, to give us a better knowledge of the story.